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DOK History and Prayers

   

For His Sake

 I am but one; but I am one.
I cannot do everything, but I can do something.
What I can do, I ought to do.
What I ought to do, by the grace of God, I will do.
Lord, what will you have me do? -- Edward Everett Hale

Prayer of the Chalice

Father, to Thee I raise my whole being,
- a vessel emptied of self. Accept, Lord,
this my emptiness, and so fill me with
Thyself - Thy Light, Thy Love, Thy
Life - that these Thy precious Gifts
May radiate through me and over-
Flow the chalice of my heart into
The hearts of all with whom I
Come in contact this day
Revealing unto them
The beauty of
Thy Joy
And
Whole-
Ness
And
The
Serenity
Of Thy Peace
Which nothing can destroy.

DOK BACKGROUND: 

The Episcopal Church organized an Order for women in 1885, the Daughters of the King (DOK). Those seeking to join the Order pledge to dedicate themselves to a lifelong commitment to prayer, service and personal evangelism. Chapters are organized within missions and parishes with the consent of priests, chaplains or bishops.

Many women in the church are already doing God's work both at St. Mark's and in the community as a whole. Forming a chapter connects our efforts under a unified umbrella of prayer and support. DOKs commit themselves to pray daily for the spread of Christ's Kingdom, the blessing of God upon fellow members, and for spiritual growth of the parish. Through the Rule of Service, DOKs commit themselves to participate in regular worship, work, and study of the Church. DOKs also commit themselves to undertake a personal program of evangelism by working to bring others to Christ through Confirmation and Baptism; and strive to help the clergy in expanding the spiritual growth of the parish. By sharing our love for Christ and joy for a Christian life, we are able to open the doors of Christ's love to others.

Please give prayerful consideration to joining this Order as a ministry. By doing so we galvanize what so many do in terms of service for others at St. Mark's, whether it be through the serving with the Altar Guild, Social Saints, education of our children, choir, greeting newcomers, pastoral care work, Bible study groups, or other ministries. The sole requirement for membership in the Order is that those seeking membership be communicants in good standing of the Episcopal Church. It should be stressed that this Order is not just for the 'exceptionally good or the exceptionally pious' among us, as we are all works in progress. It's for women wishing to serve, where we are in our walk with the Lord.

A decision to join the Order can be made at any time prior to, during, or after a 12-meeting training period. Upon joining, you will receive a silver Greek cross with the letters FHS (For His Sake - for whom members prayers, service and evangelism are done) engraved on it. The cross or pin is worn at all times by members. There are also Latin words inscribed on the cross that translated, read: 'With lofty heart, mind and spirit uphold the Cross.'


About Josephine Bakhita 

Josephine Bakhita was a remarkable woman who exemplified all for which the Order of The Daughters of the King stands. Josephine Bakhita was born in Sudan, Africa in 1869. She was kidnapped as a child and endured many harsh years of slavery. Eventually, after many years of cruelty and hardship, she was bought by an Italian Consul named Callisto Legnani. Legani and his family treated her much more humanely. Enjoying peace and even love for the first time since her kidnapping, she was given to a family friend when the Legnani's moved on. The Michieli family later made a career move, forcing them to leave Bakhita in the care of the Canossian Sisters of the Institute of the Catechumens in Venice. Through these Daughters of Charity, she learn about God. She grew to love the sisters and sought to live as one of them, loving God, whom she felt had directed her path straight to Him. It was there that she made her conversion to Christianity.

She received the new name Josephine, on January 9, 1890, when she received the sacraments of Christian initiation. Experiencing inconceivable trauma during her kidnapping caused Bakhita to forget her birth name. She was named Bakhita, which means 'fortunate' by her Arab kidnappers. It's said that Bakhita, while with the Canossian Sisters, was frequently seen kissing the baptismal font, saying 'Here, I became a daughter of God!' Josephine Bakhita is known for her humility, service to others, evangelism, and love of God. She spoke these words: 'Be good, love the Lord, pray for those who do not know Him....'

Josephine died in 1947. Prior to that, she spent 50 years serving and encouraging others with grace, humility and love. Her canonization process began 12 years later. On December 1, 1978 the Catholic church proclaimed the Decree of the heroic practice of all virtues, which eventually lead, in 2000, to the Pope declaring Josephine Bakhita a saint.

 

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